Sharing Hobbies with your Grandchild

Grammy on the Go
By Karen Shadrach

Our hobbies, whether they are gardening, painting, knitting or playing music, often become integral parts of who we are. At our age, we tend to look back on our lives and reflect on the experiences that shaped us. But did you know that sharing your hobbies with your grandchildren not only enriches their lives but also strengthens the bond between generations?

Our grandchildren, in today’s fast-paced, technology-driven world, are often more connected to their screens than the people around them. Many children are struggling with impatience and boredom. By sharing a hobby with them, we can create a beautiful way to slow things down and embrace the present moment, connect with each other, and teach them valuable life lessons.

Every hobby comes with its own set of skills and knowledge; these activities instruct children not only patience, but focus, and the value of practice. How many hobbies have you learned from your grandparents or parents? These traditions have been passed down from generation to generation. By sharing your hobbies, you’re keeping these traditions alive. You are also teaching your grandchildren that hobbies aren’t just pastimes but ways of connecting to history and family.

Nothing builds a child’s confidence more than having a grandparent who supports them through learning a new skill. Whether it’s their first time strumming a guitar string or completing a puzzle together, your encouragement will go a long way in boosting their self-esteem.

Many hobbies encourage creativity, whether it’s through art, crafting or building. These activities also promote critical thinking and problem-solving. By guiding your grandkids through these processes, you’re fostering their ability to think outside the box. They will learn that challenges are opportunities for growth, and the joy of figuring out solutions is rewarding. Also, by giving them the time and space to explore a hobby at their own pace, you’re teaching them that it’s okay to make mistakes, and that learning is a lifelong journey. You’re also instilling in them a sense of accomplishment when they succeed—whether they make their first scarf or complete a painting. You will find that sharing a hobby offers a unique chance to not only teach but also learn from each other.

Begin your hobby sharing experience with patience and keeping the atmosphere relaxed and playful. Start out with a small, easy project that your grandchild can be successful. Collaborate with them to help them develop perseverance and critical thinking skills. Take it slowly, letting them learn step-by-step. And always encourage and offer lots of praise along the way! Allow them to help you set up their project, such as choosing what they want to paint or photograph. Maybe take them along with you to a craft store to pick out their favorite color of yarn or model building kit. 

When you share a hobby with your grandchildren, you are not just passing down a skill… you’re creating cherished memories. Children often remember the experiences they had with their grandparents, not just the material gifts they received. These small moments of shared activity become precious memories they will carry with them throughout their lives and hopefully will continue their new hobby in the future. 

Photos by Karen Shadrach