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Is it Okay to Lie to Your (Aging) Parents?

As a kid, you knew the rules. Rule #1 was to never lie to your parents. But now that your aging parents are resisting the help they need, you may find yourself wondering if a white lie may be in order. When straight talk isn't working, is it time for a "fiblet"? Here's what the experts have to say... ...
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Slow and Steady: Second Marriages

Before couples remarry, they should have a realistic plan for dealing with elderly parents, adult children, friend groups, and how and where to spend their holidays. You don’t want the comment, "I didn't know you felt that way" to surface later. ...
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Yours, Mine & Ours: From Two Homes to One Love Nest

The first decision to navigate is where to live. Mine, yours or ours? Is it best to sell both homes and purchase one together? Of course, the financials need a deep dive, and having a financial planner involved is a vital piece to the puzzle.  ...
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Waterfalls with the Grandkids

It’s amazing how many waterfalls are located right here in Northeast Ohio. I was surprised to learn that there are about 100 waterfalls in the Cuyahoga Valley National Park (CVNP). Most are located in the northern section of the park, but many do not have an established trail to follow. Other waterfalls can be seen throughout the Cleveland Metroparks Emerald Necklace. ...
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Advice for Grandparents About Giving Advice

Before you rush into the heat of the moment with either advice or action that was neither requested nor appreciated, wait for a time when heads are calm and tempers are cool. Then bring up the incident(s) that trouble you. ...
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Congratulations! You’re an Executor AND a Guardian

When you first took on the role of executor, you were probably more focused on the honor than on the responsibilities, being recognized as the go-to person in the family making things right. Perhaps you were the one to resolve difficult issues in the past, but you should know that being an executor is different, especially when there is a surviving spouse.  ...
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Relaxed Masking is Another Reason to be Vaccinated

The most recent CDC guidelines give people who are vaccinated a little more freedom from COVID-19 restrictions. Indoors, vaccinated people can gather with other vaccinated people without wearing a mask or social distancing. Outdoor activities without a mask are also considered safe for those who have been vaccinated, unless it’s a crowded venue. ...
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How to Make Changes to Your Will

While it may be tempting to just take out a pen and make changes by hand, this is not recommended. Changes will not be effective unless you use the same formalities as you did when drafting the will. And depending on state law, changes made by hand on the will may void the will altogether. If you sign your name to handwritten changes and have the changes witnessed, it is possible a court will find that the changes are valid, but there is no guarantee and there are likely to be delays with the court while your final wishes are sorted out. ...
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