From the Cleveland Clinic
I first heard the term “Sunday Scaries” from my adult kids, although I’m well familiar with the mood it describes. I thought it referred to the gloomy, untethered feeling I sometimes got before heading back to the office on Monday mornings. I assumed it stemmed from “Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom” post-traumatic stress from my childhood, watching too many animals losing out to stronger predators.
The explanation offered up by a Cleveland Clinic psychologist is more plausible than mine. Here’s how to cope with the Sunday Scaries.
Weekends only last so long, and if you start feeling anxious by Sunday, you’re not alone. Many of us deal with something called the “Sunday Scaries,” week after week.
Sunday Scaries just refers to the anxiety that people have before the beginning of the workweek. If you have a regular work schedule, like Monday through Friday, the Sunday Scaries would mean you have this anticipatory anxiety on Sunday, says Kia-Rai Prewitt, PhD, a psychologist for the Cleveland Clinic.
While the Sunday Scaries can feel overwhelming, Dr. Prewitt says there are ways to manage them. First, she encourages people to focus on what they can control in the present rather than worrying about Monday’s unknowns. Whether it’s dinner with friends or watching your favorite movie, doing things you enjoy can take your mind off the upcoming workweek. But packing too many plans into one weekend may leave you heading into Monday feeling unrested, so it’s important to find the right balance.
While experiencing some job-related anxiety is normal, Dr. Prewitt suggests reassessing your situation if you’re always dreading work.
“Are you constantly working longer hours? Are you working in a short-staffed environment? Really look at the things that might be contributing to your stress and see if you can talk to your co-workers or supervisor about how to make adjustments to your work schedule or environment,” Dr. Prewitt says.
If these efforts to tame the Sunday Scaries don’t work, Dr. Prewitt says it might be time to make a change or seek help from a mental health professional.
